Question:
Given the pandemic and national reckoning on racial injustice, does celebrating this year take on a new meaning?
Answer:
Given the current state of the country, Latinx Heritage Month does mean something way different than ever before.
I am grateful that I was born into a rich culture and being born and raised in California I have always been surrounded by mi gente. (My people)
I have always felt I’ve had a home away from home, regardless of where in California I may be.
Elders will almost always address me as “mijo”(my son), making me feel like we have a deeper connection, despite meeting for the first time ever.
Any Mexican restaurant I walk into reminds me of home because the very distinct smells of foods being cooked in the kitchen, but still never as good as home.
With all that being said, I have seen the negative aspects of my culture, and as much as I want to celebrate it’s time to come to terms with what we have not addressed within my culture.
Colorism exists. Mexicans and Mexican Americans will be the first to notice and make a comment on how dark someone’s skin tone is and typically seen as lesser than someone with lighter skin.
Sexism and being anti-gay are alive and well. Men tend to disrespect and undermine women’s accomplishments. Hypermasculinity is almost encouraged in order to avoid the possibility of anyone thinking they might be gay or be perceived as gay. Disrespecting LGBTQIA+ rights and not giving a voice to the community.
Mental health is a taboo. To most Mexican Americans we don’t discuss mental health, when it is brought up it’s usually perceived as weakness.
Lack of support to other races. As we see an increase in police brutality on Black Americans we fail to stand up and say it’s wrong unless it’s someone of Latin descent. Older generations will make unapologetic stereotypes on all races outside our own.
Until we learn to dismantle colorism, respect women, take mental health seriously, stand up for other races outside of our own, and learn to love and appreciate the LGBTQIA+ community, I can’t celebrate.
Celebration will come when we can create an inclusive environment for future generations.