Everyone has a story… an aspect of my story is that I am a Latina. Being Latina means being diverse, seeing things through a different perspective, embracing who I am and sharing my culture with those who I meet along the way.
Seeing the struggles my parents faced to give my sisters and I better opportunities, has made me always feel incredibly thankful. I’m thankful for the cultural aspects they have passed on to me, such as being able to speak both English and Spanish. I started translating for my family since I was a kid at my grandfather’s doctor appointments, for my dad’s business, at the grocery store, at all of my parent-teacher conferences throughout elementary school. As I’ve grown older, I’ve realized that being bilingual is a gateway that gives me a deeper connection to my heritage and community.
To Latinos, family means everything. Family ties are strong in Mexican culture and family plays a central role in our lives. Personally, for any holiday or just a Sunday get-together, having 20+ family members is pretty darn normal. We observe certain cultural traditions around the holidays and Easter, we socialize and catch up on the latest family “chisme”, we share accomplishments, defeats and dreams. My close-knit family provides me with a network of security and support, particularly in times of need. No matter where we are, no matter what happens, family comes first.
Holiday gatherings and special celebrations are on a whole different level. Celebrations are vibrant, decorative, colorful, full of laughter, warm embraces, music, dancing, an abundant amount of delicious food (I mean a lot) and plenty of alcoholic beverages. We pre-celebrate, celebrate and post-celebrate… It’s when I’m surrounded by family and friends at these celebrations when I feel the most happy.

My sense of place is somewhere in between two cultures and it’s pretty unique. Working at Deckers during the week, then taking a shift at my parent’s Mexican restaurant on some weekends, listening to 80’s at work and then driving home to Reggaeton, quizzing my kids on U.S. state capitals and switching to Spanish the next minute telling them to get their stuff ready for soccer practice. It’s enriching for me to be immersed in two cultures. It feels right. It’s who I am.
I’ve shared some highlights, but I’ve faced very real challenges and eye-opening experiences as a result of being a first-generation Latina. I’ve had to navigate through a system that wasn’t made for people like me. I’ve been underestimated, misunderstood and faced certain hurdles, but these experiences have only made me persist regardless of the challenges I’ve encountered along the way. It’s beautiful being diverse, it’s beautiful to live your story regardless of your background or ethnicity.

Adriana













